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> Libreddit - JavaScript-free private Reddit frontend.


Alternative Reddit frontend I prefer: teddit.net/

These and other alternative FEs to proprietary services are catalogued and redirected to at farside.link/ !

Alternative FEs to proprietary services are often subject to rate-limiting, outright blocking etc, and instances come and go. If you want to share e.g. Twitter content you can share a link to farside.link/nitter/npettiaux/… and it will redirect to that post on a Nitter instance detected as up.

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Content warning: List of free and open-source web services you should use! (very long)



Content warning: long "introduction" (even though I have been here a while at time of writing)

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@F00FC7C8 likes to infodump I was afraid you would say that, it's an homophone to a familiar French term for vulva spelled "fouffe". 😅
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oh no... it was not my intention to be lewd...

well then you can call me Eris

or one of my excessive number of alternate names



Hmm.

I don't think I can go back to Mastodon, but my followers are going to get more annoyed with me the more I use Friendica. Someone just @'ed me saying "those big reply-all threads really need to get reigned in," so... Between that and really needing private posts, I don't think I can stay here.

I think maybe I should just leave fedi so I have no temptation to get emotionally invested in its discourse. But at the same time it's hard for me to withdraw my investment in fedi, especially with so many friends. I'm in a bit of a pickle here.

I guess I could create yet another new main account. See how that goes.

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I hope I did not discourage you from being someplace you want to stay. I like following you and seeing what you have to say; I just didn't want myself or others to have to unfollow you over the mass DM federation issues with other platforms.
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Oh no, you didn't discourage me at all, but the fact that I can't make private posts does mean that I have to rethink my fedi presence. And the reason I switch main accounts in the first place was that I was already starting to get disillusioned with the fediverse, and thought getting rid of Mastodon's limitations might help with that.

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!Friendica Support It seems that when i make a private post, Misskey/Calckey clients interpret it as a group DM to all of my followers. This makes it somewhat uncomfortable to post "private" here, because there's a strong chance every one of my followers gets pinged, resulting in more attention, when the whole point was to attract less.

Should this be reported as a bug against Friendica? Or is it a problem on Misskey's end? Or is there a Friendica setting to mitigate this? Either way, it might make me have to move accounts again, to a Misskey, Pleroma, or Mastodon fork, to avoid this. Or simply use a private account there.

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@F00FC7C8 likes to infodump It could be either. @Michael Vogel could tell you more about how we develop permissions for generic ActivityPub delivery while we keep the collection concept between Friendica accounts.
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Concerning the permissions: Many ActivityPub systems only know:

  • Public
  • Unlisted (but public)
  • Private (to followers)
  • DM

We support all of these but we also support private posts to selected accounts. This will most likely be displayed as "private (to followers)" on these systems, since they only know these 4 options. In my tests a reply on my posts only was sent to me directly, not to my followers. And my reply to such a post was directed to the original group. So from a privacy perspective it should be fine. But it would be great if the remote systems could handle it in a better way to avoid confusion.


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Everyone is a bus driver until the real bus driver shows up.


Content warning: ancient meme video "lyrics"


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"it's okay to block anyone for any reason" is a slogan, and like many slogans it has a core of truth but is really bad if you take it literally (if you're friends with someone and you block them without telling them why [and there are no context clues that would make it obvious] you're probably being an asshole)
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I think the slogan is more aimed at like... if some random dillweed is posting cringe in your mentions, you don't actually have to engage them, you can just block and move on

If it's someone you know and have a relationship with then I think I'd probably ask what's up first yeah



dream collabs i want to see:
- aphex twin and polygon window
- mu-ziq and jake slazenger
- the beatles and the quarrymen
- metamatics and nacht plank
- skee mask and scntst
- the 1973 lineup of yes and anderson bruford wakeman howe
- nine inch nails and trent reznor
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Are there any good multi-account Matrix clients for Linux and Android? I've been thinking of getting a second Matrix account since my current account is heavily tied to my "worksona", and the username is related to my legal name which some people are uncomfortable with knowing, but I don't want to lose that account.

I have noticed that FluffyChat on Android can manage more than one account, but what about Linux clients?

(do boost!)

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i believe you can run Fluffy on desktop. It's the only client I'm aware of with multi account support. That said, I find it clunky looking on desktop as it looks more like a mobile app. So, it's not ideal.
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nohello.net/en/

I am surprised someone made a whole website for this but hey, it's an important rule of netiquette

Maybe saying "hi" is okay if you don't care what response you get and have nothing specific you want to ask or discuss, but if you do have something to ask or discuss, just lead with that


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Warriors proudly display their scars, as souvenirs of battles fought and sacrifices made. Yet they are often ashamed of scars no one can see. A wound on the soul is still a wound, and we should work to heal them just as we would a cut or a bruise. Reject shame, and heal.
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The scars we don't show should remain concealed, until we have been invited to show them. There is no honour to be found delivering our own trauma to another like a photon torpedo.



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To all our fellow #Autistics, welcome to our new group here in the fediverse! This group welcomes not only #ActuallyAutistics but our family, friends, and allies, as well. If you have a question to ask or information to share, simply tag this group like so: @autistics@chirp.social And if you want to receive messages from the group, follow @autistics@chirp.social Invite everyone and let's rebuild our community here! [Additional tags: #ActuallyAutistic #Autistic #Autism #AutismSpectrum #Autists #Autist #Neurodifferent #Neurodivergent #Neurodivergents ]

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You're not a failure, according to the laws of nature.

For every day that you live, you're progressing through life. And that is what matters the most in nature.

Society can go fuck itself, thats a stupid human made construct made by corrupt people.

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Some yellow-headed blackbirds from this weekend doing whatever it takes to find a special someone to get up and get down with.

One whole strip of the marsh was like a 1980s PBS telethon, the calls of the blackbirds just ringing off the hook.
#Birds #Oregon

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The service at a.gup.pe will shutdown on May 31st, 2023 if we cannot increase our membership contributions to cover costs. More info: web.immers.space/2023/05/farew…

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wait why am i receiving posts from a day ago?

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oh, snowdin.town

welcome back I guess!



Content warning: parody of transphobia


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now that the fedi has become more popular can we please work on reviving jabber and xmpp in general? i'm tired of not being able to access my instant messenger accounts from whichever device i fucking want
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I have an XMPP server! Should I set one up for toot.cat, maybe? I need to write a good admin panel for it, though... and there are so many needed features...
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@woozle tbh i know like 2 people who use it at all and none of them are people i regularly talk to, so i really don't know how to get from there to actually using it. i'm just so annoyed that all the messengers these days are strictly phone based and i would prefer one that is not
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@woozle having a server would be a start but then i would have to annoy all my friends with it 🤭
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Not that I'm recommending either of these (I'm not), but FB Messenger and Google Chat (or whatever they're calling it now) both have web UIs.
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@woozle i don’t think i know anyone irl that regularly uses either of those 🤭​
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@woozle i’ve been trying to convince my friends to use threema but nobody wants to pay for an app, and you still need to put it on the phone first.

when i finally got a smartphone in like 2012, i thought we‘d finally have everything that runs on the computer in the pocket. i surely did not expect the shift to smartphones to end up causing a limitation to what you can access with a computer 😒​

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I'm hugely averse to any app or service that doesn't have a desktop/web UI.
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@woozle even web UI usually sucks imo. especially those that don’t work properly with firefox. i don‘t know who invented this version of the future that we live in now but i don’t like it very much
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I use Firefox for everything, so... yeah.

I think we all know most of why it sucks so much. Follow the money... 😕

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Sometimes you see XMPP and Matrix in people's bios on the fediverse.

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sometimes I wonder how the average person I run into sees me. are they amused, or disgusted? do they think I'm unhinged, or just normal?

it's hard to see me as normal when i have an accent from nowhere, stim visibly all the time, walk without much awareness of space, and often neglect "self-care". but i don't dress conspicuously, and i speak rather agreeably and intelligibly, so i could pass as normal.

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Content warning: religion


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Please enjoy this "gato colocolo", also known as the Pampas Cat.

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